161: Scott Stabile – Love is always serving everyone involved

Scott Stabile’s inspirational posts and videos have attracted a huge and devoted social media following.

His previous works include Just Love, Iris, and the Li’l Pet Hospital series.

A passionate speaker and love advocate, Scott runs daylong empowerment workshops nationally and internationally.

Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra

What does love invite me to do in this moment? 

or 

How is love inviting me to respond in this moment?

When You Tripped Up

When Scott is tripping up the most it is always around communication.  It is always around an unwillingness to sit in front of one another and be honest with what’s going on.

This includes being willing and present to his partner’s truth.  Showing up to a conversation without the need to be right.

It is important to consider timing.  If we enter into communication with our partners when there’s really no good possibility of anything positive happening, we’re setting ourselves up for failure.

The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever

No one can read your mind.

Scott used to get so frustrated and angry that his partner should know what he’s thinking and responding in accordance to what is going on in his mind.

This expectation always leads to disappointment.

A Payoff of Partnership

When Scott came into partnership with himself and love as the guiding force in his life, and was finally able to heal from the tragic loss of his parents when he was a child.

Once he partnered with love all the relationships in his life shifted.  And his life changed for the better, over and over and over again.

What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?

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Best Partnership Resource

Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

TheRumpus.net 

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About the author, Ken

I am the producer and host of Speaking of Partnership, a podcast that was inspired by a life of wearing the badge of self-sufficiency and independence proudly, until I realized it wasn't really a badge...it was armor.

My passion is helping you experience the power and payoffs of partnership by understanding and appreciating the opposite sex so you can feel safe, confident and understood in your personal, professional and family partnerships.

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