Nijole Sparkis – Have compassion for yourself
Nijole Sparkis is a licensed Spiritual Practitioner and Relationship Coach who helps her clients heal their relationships to create the love they desire.
Coming from a background where her parents fought constantly and ultimately divorced, then moving into adulthood with her own dysfunctional relationships, Nijole eventually learned to turn it all around using spiritual principles.
As a result, she miraculously attracted her true soulmate, whom she has been married to for over 19 years.
Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – Rumi
When You Tripped Up
Nijole was constantly creating relationships with guys that did not honor her because she did not know how to honor herself.
Proudest moment in partnership
Nijole was able to turn all of these painful relationships around when she got honest with herself about what she wanted in her life and in her relationships. She used to label it and reject it.
As soon as she opened up to the possibility of having what she wanted she met her soulmate, Fritz.
She was able to see in Fritz what she had never seen before over the 4 1/2 years she had known him.
Current Partnership that Has You Excited
Nijole’s partnership with her higher self is so exciting for her.
She is constantly nurturing this relationship.
And it takes practice.
What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?
Face whatever is inside of yourself that you don’t want to see and feel the feelings that you want to avoid.
Have compassion for yourself.
Best Partnership Book or Resource
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About the author, Ken
I am the producer and host of Speaking of Partnership, a podcast that was inspired by a life of wearing the badge of self-sufficiency and independence proudly, until I realized it wasn't really a badge...it was armor.
My passion is helping you experience the power and payoffs of partnership by understanding and appreciating the opposite sex so you can feel safe, confident and understood in your personal, professional and family partnerships.