Paula Grooms – It’s about you
Paula Grooms is a Dating and Relationship Coach and also a Master’s level Social Worker with nearly 20 years of professional experience. Her new book Why Won’t He Commit?: How a Man Decides to Make You “The One,” helps women in love become “the one,” in one year or less, all without sacrificing, struggling, or settling!
Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra
Respect.
When You “Tripped Up” in Partnership
Paula thought that men commit from love alone. When she felt that love from a man she put that filter through her own. Women view commitment as an outgrowth of love, whereas men view commitment as a responsibility. Paula was with a man for many years and was making concessions for the actions he was giving her because she felt she understood him.
Find out what happened next by listening to the podcast.
The Best Relationship Advice You’ve Ever Received
What a partnership is is you having your garden and your partner having their garden. You appreciate and partake in the garden of the other.
Best Partnership Resource
Why Won’t He Commit?: How a Man Decides to Make You “The One” – Paula Grooms
All The Rules – Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider
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About the author, Ken
I am the producer and host of Speaking of Partnership, a podcast that was inspired by a life of wearing the badge of self-sufficiency and independence proudly, until I realized it wasn't really a badge...it was armor.
My passion is helping you experience the power and payoffs of partnership by understanding and appreciating the opposite sex so you can feel safe, confident and understood in your personal, professional and family partnerships.