Bryan Reeves – Get beneath the level of the complaint

Bryan Reeves is a former US Air Force Captain turned Author, Coach and Speaker.

He has triumphed through multiple dark nights of the soul after hurling himself into the transformational fires of intimate relationships over and over again.

Bryan now coaches men, women and couples in creating thriving lives and relationships and has worked alongside Rev. Michael Beckwith, Marianne Williamson, Deepak Chopra, The Oracle of Tibet, Don Miguel Ruiz and others.

He is a regular blog contributor to The Good Men Project, Elephant Journal, Raw Attraction Magazine, Sexy Conscious Awake and more.

And his book “The Sex, Flirting, Dating, Hunting and Hoping Diet” is available on Amazon.

Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra

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Tripped Up in a Partnership

When Bryan was in a relationship with a woman and she said to him, “When I’m angry, I just want you to hold me.” He always thought that when she was angry, she was like an exploding bomb and that was the last thing he wanted to hold. Then he learned that she was asking him to hold her in her upset and his world changed.

The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever

Years ago, Bryan did not know how clueless he was at that time. Now, he is no less clueless. He just knows that he’s clueless. The awareness of how clueless he is creates space to be real with his partner now.

Proudest moment in partnership

When Bryan has been able to support his partner in doing what it is that they feel called to do, even when it seems to run counter to his interests.

Current Partnership that Has You Excited

His partnership with his coach that is shifting him from living in a mindset of fear to living in a mindset of love

What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?

Getting out of his head and realizing that his feminine partner just wants to feel connected.

Best Partnership Book

Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence

Keys to the Kingdom

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About the author, Ken

I am the producer and host of Speaking of Partnership, a podcast that was inspired by a life of wearing the badge of self-sufficiency and independence proudly, until I realized it wasn't really a was armor.

My passion is helping you experience the power and payoffs of partnership by understanding and appreciating the opposite sex so you can feel safe, confident and understood in your personal, professional and family partnerships.

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